Hear me out! — Many people will want to eat me alive but hear me out before you do. I just don’t get it 100%. I stay in a room with total strangers, hugging their sweats and spit because we don’t have enough space to ourselves. I inhale many clouds of smoke, stand for…

As a developer, I always look forward to finding articles that explain complex topics in an easy but short form. I am trying to flex my powers to see how I can get you to understand this in less than 5 minutes, so I don’t become what I despise 😄. …

Feeling like a failure — It just feels like a lot is happening all at once, and one can’t seem to catch a break. Time is flying by so fast! I still remember vividly when I turned 18 years old. Suddenly, I am 27 and dealing with stress and anxiety. I remember how I wanted…

Just try to live, for you, for me, for us all. There’s a place. There’s a place I long for. Somewhere with a chaotic sequence. A place filled with strong, mighty water. When the flashbacks and painful memories come seeping through, always without a warning, always catching you unawares, at…

Body count in African societies …to be decided for women- Yours truly, Society. Let’s be honest, how many of us can boldly say our body count out loud? …

Feeling inspired? Don’t let it go — Do you also get inspiration when you shower? I do not believe I am the only one. When I am working out or taking a shower, I tend to think a lot, and most times, those thoughts give birth to great inspiration. I use my Apple Notes to write down…

I signed up for “Soft Life” this year. — I preach self-love and self-care, but sometimes, I struggle to take my own advice. Coming from a family with five younger siblings, I have many responsibilities. I already know exactly where the next paycheck is going. This sometimes limits me from taking excellent care of myself. I put family needs…

Happy new month — I usually start the month with planning; this helps me keep my sanity and reduces my procrastination as I clarify what I need to focus on for the month. I started a series on my youtube channel in March 2021; I plan monthly to keep myself accountable to my subscribers…

No one is coming — Is this just me, or does it also happen to you? Whenever I see babies all cute in their strollers, a part of me wishes I could be them. But, never mind, maybe it’s just me. This adulthood was not exactly what I signed up for, honestly. However, I wanted…